A Goodbye...

Hey friends....it's with a heavy heart that I write this morning, letting you know that my grandpa passed away last night. At the age of 91 and 364 days. Yes, he died the day before his 92nd birthday.

Although this isn't terribly surprising news for the family (his health had been steadily declining over the past few months), it is still sad. My grandparents were both at the same nursing home. My grandmother has Alzheimers and basically hasn't really been able to communicate much for the last 10 years or so.  Yesterday they took her in to see him, as they were used to having regular time together. They spent some time, and when she was taken to go have dinner, he passed. It was like he hung on to say good-bye to her, the woman he had loved and been married to for 70+ years. That part pulls at my heartstrings a little bit :)

I appreciate all of your thoughts and prayers yesterday. I'm sure that they helped him along and comforted him on his journey.  I can't tell you how much this community means to me, with the outpouring of love and support that we give to each other. It's really incredible. You guys mean a lot to me, and I'm incredibly thankful to have people like you in my life for the happy times, and the times when we need some support. Sincerely, thank you.


14 comments:

  1. I am so so sorry to hear this, Jenn:( I lost my grandfather a little over a hear ago and I remember the feeling you are experiencing now. I also remember feeling that nice relief that he was no longer in pain and in a better place though. I'm sure you know what i mean:) It sounds like he lived a wonderful, long life filled with love from his family!

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  2. I'm so sorry to hear about that Jenn :(

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  3. Oh, my dear Jenn. I love you so much and am so sorry you have to go through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if there is anything I can do. Love you, girl.

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  4. I am so sorry to hear about your family's loss Jenn -- My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you cope. Memories can never be stolen from us..

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  5. I am so sorry love! I lost my grandma almost a year ago, and the pain no matter if you think its coming is still as hard as ever. My prayers and thoughts to you and your family.... I am so sorry for your loss :(

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  6. Oh my goodness, I wish I read this before I commented on your other post :( I'm so sorry for your loss, Jenn. You and your family are still in my prayers.

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  7. Oh my goodness, that is such a sad, and yet still somewhat beautiful story. How sweet that he waited to say goodbye to his wife one last time. I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers and blessings go out to you and your family.

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  8. So sorry for your loss -- sending hugs and thoughts your way

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  9. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

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  10. Jenn I am so sorry. I know your heart is hurting right now. Your family is in my prayers.

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  11. So sorry for you loss! Praying for you and your family!

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  12. Oh Jenn, I'm so sorry for your lose! Sounds like he lived a full life! Let us know if you need anything!

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  13. Oh Jenn! I am so sorry to hear this :( I just went through this a couple months ago and it is hard. My grandad was 97 and he and my grandma had just celebrated their 75 wedding anniversary.
    I know your grandpa is in a happier place and has a healthy body again. I truly believe it! I hope you find lots of love and comfort with your family during this time!
    Praying for you, sweet girl!

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